Catherine Wanjiru Ndai
Stories (13/0)
FIVE STAGES OF LOVE, MOST PEOPLE STOP AT STAGE 3.
FIVE STAGES OF LOVE, MOST PEOPLE STOP AT STAGE 3. The psychology of love is one of the most interesting topics and one we're all curious about. Wouldn't you agree? And though it can mean something different for everyone, that doesn't stop us from trying to better understand it and seeking to learn how to nurture it. And those psychologists have put forth plenty of ideas and theories about love, what it is, the many faces of it, how and why it happens. Something that maybe we don't explore enough is how love develops over time. With that said, stick around to learn more about the five stages of love and why most people stop at the third stage.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai13 days ago in Humans
HOW TO DETACH YOURSELF FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
HOW TO DETACH YOURSELF FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE. There are moments in our lives when we find ourselves standing at the crossroads of love and self-preservation. Realizing that detachment is the necessary path to healing. Whether it's the aftermath of a breakup, unreciprocated feelings, or a need for personal growth, the decision to detach from someone you love is a deeply personal and often courageous choice. In these moments, it's important to acknowledge the validity of your emotion and recognize that embarking on this journey is an act of self-love. With that said let's explore the delicate art of detaching from someone you love and discover the steps that can guide you towards healing and personal growth.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai13 days ago in Humans
SIGNS YOU'RE REJECTING LOVE WITHOUT KNOWING.
SIGNS YOU'RE REJECTING LOVE WITHOUT KNOWING IT. Everyone wants to love and be loved. But it's not all that easy and sometimes love can be scary. So how can something so ingrained in us be so terrifying? What are the signs that you're rejecting love without knowing?
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai13 days ago in Humans
FADED SHADOW EPISODE 2
Grey got home with his muddy dress and took it off at the entrance of his sold building as his mom come out. ''My son who did this to you?'' she asked picking up his clothes she has to watch them so that they can dry for him to wear tomorrow. ''It's just May'' he said explaining everything to her as she burst out laughing. ''Grey you are an idiot, better use her money'' she said.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai5 months ago in Chapters
FADED SHADOW EPISODE 1
May paced up and down the stairs as she was looking for her keys. She got a report from a hospital close to her husband's work place that he was admitted there. So she quickly rushes to find out where she had earlier dropped her keys. She stood on the first floor looking around trying to trace her steps where has she been today. She could clearly remember that she only went out to the supermarket to get some supplies for food and she came in and dropped her purse in the first parlor and immediately rushing to the kitchen "living room" she shouted as she ran towards the living room almost slipping down due to the slippery tiles. She picked up the keys and rushed out yelling at the gate man to open up the gate but suddenly stopped to look at her. "why are you looking at me, I said open the gate". She yelled as she realized she wore a blue singlet and a bum short. "oh God...…." She yells rushing into the house to put on a large gown that was three times her size, it was not even hers but but one of her customers who asked her to sew the dress for her.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai5 months ago in Chapters
SEVEN GREEN FLAGS IN YOURSELF TO BE PROUD OF.
SEVEN GREEN FLAGS IN YOURSELF TO BE PROUD OF. Do you know what red and green flags actually mean? There's been a lot of talk in the Mental Health and Wellness Community lately about them. You might know that red flags refer to negative undesirable characteristics and behaviors. Green flags are their positive and healthy counterparts which contribute to emotional maturity, healthy communication skills, and a willingness to form positive relationships, and both can exist. So if you've ever wondered what some green flags in you might be, then here are seven psychologically backed examples.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai5 months ago in Motivation
SEVEN SIGNS SOMEONE HAS NOT GROWN FULLY IN A RELATIONSHIP.
SEVEN SIGNS SOMEONE HAS NOT GROWN FULLY IN A RELATIONSHIP. Are you in a relationship with someone who might be amateur? In order for two people to have a strong and healthy relationship, there needs to be intimacy, honesty, trust, respect, loyalty, dedication, and most of all, maturity. The level of maturity that partners show in a relationship can make or break it now. Before we go on and list all the signs of an immature partner, we'd like to mention that this is meant for educational purposes only and not at all intended to attack or criticize anyone who may be displaying these signs. With that said, here are seven telltale signs that someone may be too immature for you.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai6 months ago in Families
FIVE EVERYDAY HABITS TO MAKE YOU SMARTER.
FIVE EVERYDAY HABITS TO MAKE YOU SMARTER What comes to mind when you think of a smart person? Maybe it's your stereotypical nerd whose nose is constantly buried in a book and wears glasses. But being smart is more than just that. Intelligence is defined by the Oxford dictionary as the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills. Being able to learn so many things and use them is something that can benefit you greatly in your daily life. We're all constantly looking for new ways to get smarter because, after all, most of the time being smart is the key to success. Improving your intelligence may include strengthening cognitive functions like memory, tension, and abstract thinking, among others. With that said, here are five everyday habits that you can do to make you smarter.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai6 months ago in Humans
FIVE SIGNS SOMEONE THINKS ABOUT YOU A LOT.
FIVE SIGNS SOMEONE THINKS ABOUT YOU A LOT Ever wonder just how often you're on someone's mind? Picture this: you're strolling through the park, lost in thought, and a soft wind carries a melody that takes you back to a shared moment with a special someone. The memory warms your heart, and you can't help but wonder: are you on their mind as well, just as they're on yours? Let's dive into this and explore five signs that might suggest someone is thinking about you a lot.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai6 months ago in Psyche
FOUR WAYS TO BE MORE ATTRACTIVE EVEN WITHOUT GOOD LOOKS.
Four Ways to Be Attractive Even Without Good Looks There is no denying that looks matter a lot in our world, yet the perception of attractive physical traits is constantly changing with trends. However, inner beauty, such as our character and personality, is what truly attracts others. It's way more important than just looks when it comes to making your relationship last. Want to know which non-physical traits make you attractive? Check out these four traits;
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai6 months ago in Humans
SIX FLIRTING MISTAKES THAT KEEP YOU SINGLE
SIX FLIRTING MISTAKES THAT KEEP YOU SINGLE Have you ever pondered the reasons behind our inclination to flirt? Well, anthropological research from the Social Issues Research Center reveals that flirting is an intrinsic and vital aspect of human interaction. However, if flirting is instinctive to all of us on some level, why do we sometimes falter in this social dance? If you find yourself seeking guidance to enhance your flirting skills, you're not alone. Much like many other social norms, the dos and don'ts of flirting are often governed by unwritten laws of etiquette that we subconsciously adhere to. With that said, the Social Issues Research Center sheds light on six common flirting mistakes backed by psychology that might be contributing to your single status.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai6 months ago in Humans
FIVE SIGNS SOMEONE HAS DEEP FEELINGS FOR YOU
SIGNS SOMEONE HAS GOT DEEP FEELINGS FOR YOU Determining if someone harbors profound emotions for you can be likened to sensing the elusive wind—you feel its presence but struggle to fully grasp it. Have you ever sifted through a sea of smiles, words, and gestures, seeking signs to discern if someone holds deep feelings for you? Today, we aim to decipher the subtle cues that suggest someone may feel more for you than they express. Bear in mind that these are not absolutes but rather guideposts for understanding their emotions.
By Catherine Wanjiru Ndai6 months ago in Humans